planned by envisioning what you will wear, your drive with and without traffic, and what time you would like to arrive. Be aware of what time an event starts so you can leave in a comfortable amount of time. If you are someone who people look forward to seeing at an event, then don’t disappoint! Down time is another reason why people don’t arrive on time. Instead of arriving late to avoid downtime, arrive on time and bring a quick task you can complete. I often bring my daily planner and check it. A lot of people use their cell phones to past time. Whatever your task or destination is, being late should not be a part of your legacy. If you must be late be graceful, smile, and make no excuses.

Ten 2016 Must Haves

As the "New Year" approached we began to reflect on what we accomplished in 2015, only to propel ourselves into 2016 as warriors. We vowed to make more money, travel more, find another job, finish our Master's degree or just for once complete a workout program. Some of us vowed to do nothing but live by the day, (scary, but true). Rather you are a warrior or just living life withou
t any true timelines or goals we have come up with a list of ten things you must have in 2016.

1. A book you can read cover to cover. Some of us have been entrenched into television as if it is apart of our family. Reality tv has been immersed so much into our culture, the English language has been disassembled by some Americans. A great book can take your mind off some of the stress and anxiety that you face on a day to day basis. The blue lights from your computers and cellphone has ruined your eyes for the day, so not only would a book make you wiser it will also help you sleep better.

Vacation budgeting can be a good opportunity to reinforce the benefits of planning and saving, which can also be applied to larger goals.

2. A vacation account to help you save for your vacation. I just recently started a vacation account with my credit union and bank. Yes I have two so I can utilize the saving method due to my relentless shopping habit that sometimes overrides my ability to save. It was easy I went to the bank started the account with just $100.00 and I get $120.00 deposited each check. I have two pay out dates, May and November. Formerly I was apart of a club in which I gave $120.00 a pay period and retrieved it back on a certain date. This allowed me to accumulate $3,000 and use it for vacations or anything that I chose. Now some people automatically state that they don't have $120.00 to save, well $20.00 a check will provide you with $500.00 savings for the year.

3. A great handbag. I can remember when I first started carrying handbags, I was in my late 20s and did not find them essential. As I have progressed in my purchases I realize how great they are and what impact a handbag can have on your day. So what's in your handbag? You must have a pen, some paper, wipes, band aide, nail file, lip gloss, a mirror, and some mints right? Yes you can carry all that in a $20.00 bag, but a great handbag of great quality gives you a different type of feeling. Carrying a great handbag reminds you of what you are setting to accomplish for the day. When looking at your handbag and carrying it in you perfect stride remember in all your imperfectness that this bag has the contents to always keep you together.

4. A Personal Legend. I was reading one of the greatest books I ever read, The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. In the book it states that a Personal Legend is what you have always wanted to accomplish. As a youth you dream and everything is possible and you are not afraid  to yearn and seek out your will. Let your fears go again and realize your personal legend.

5. Exercising your body is always important don't minimize it. I can come up with a million excuses not to work out, however there is no excuse not to be run for my health. Some people find it hard to workout, however if you can chat on the phone, spend time on social media or go shopping you can workout. I have managed to stick to Zumba for over a year, As I progressed I realized I was just masking some of my fears by concentrating on things that does not matter. If Zumba is not for you try rollerblading, running, long walks, Martial Arts, swimming, yoga, Pilates, or grab a Groupon and try something new.

6. A Manageable Hairstyle will save your day. The most complicated aspect of your day should not be grooming. I am not saying that hair is not complicated, I do understand that bad hair days exist. A high ponytail can easily help remedy your problem, you can also place your hair in a bun to sharpen up the look. If your hair is short then you can twist your hair and pin it in place. 

Love... Everyone seems to be searching for that "one" person who will offer them the sanctuary of true love. There are hundreds of mobile apps and websites that promise to help you find that special someone. So is it wrong to look for love through social media sites such as Instagram and Facebook? In my opinion...NO and let me tell you why.

 I met my husband at an jewelry line launch party in Detroit through a friend. We didn't really talk to each other, it was literally just a Hi and Bye situation.  He complimented me on my decor and jewelry designs and literally that was the end of our conversation. About a month later, I was on Instagram and I saw this cute guy comment on my friend's Instagram picture... I looked through his pictures on Instagram and really liked what I saw (pictures of him working out and a few pictures of him with his little brothers) so I followed him. I started liking and commenting on his pictures ( and vice versa) and after a while I sent him a DM (direct message) asking him where was he from, since he seemed to travel frequently. He responded back to me in a few days and then the conversation kept growing. Ultimately, he asked for my number and then we would talk, text and Skype. It wasn't until we started talking via Skype when I realized we had met. That helped me put my guard down a lot and intrigued me more.  Our conversations went on for hours about life, people and just everything. He was amazingly sweet even from a distance. Eventually he flew up to Detriot to come visit me and take me out on a date and from there history was made.  To this day, I am still grateful I went outside my norm and decided to contact him on Instagram. Who knows if we would be married today if I didn't.  

While I don't believe social media is the only source to find love, I do believe it can tell you a lot about a person.  Social media can also bring people together who otherwise might not have met. And it definitely can reintroduce you to someone you may have not had the opportunity to meet again. So with that being said, it is ok to find love via Instagram, Facebook and etc. Who knows? You may just find your soulmate like I did. 

Sincerely from the Heart, 

Paper Doll xoxo 

Hey Dolls,

I love weave! I especially love adding in new hair extensions with each new hair style. But let's be honest... It can get really expensive to continuously buy weave and most of the so-called "virgin and unprocessed" hair is really just good fibers or processed hair. So what can you do if you want new weave, but the budget is tight? Well, I personally suggest saving up and investing in better hair and better hair care products to prolong the life of your hair extensions. But a new trend has hit the market for weave buying. Loans for Weave

Weave Loan Store In Detroit, MI

 Virgin Hair sellers across the U.S. are now offering financing for hair extensions... But does it really benefit the consumer? The answer is not a simple yes or no, it depends on a few different factors. For one, is the hair quality good and will the hair last? I would think there is nothing worse than paying monthly for weave you can no longer use or was only able to install once. Second thing to consider is the financing costs. If the interest is high, do not apply. You could end up paying double the price for the weave ... That's another bundle or 2 - so don't finance,  if there is not an option to payoff the loan or credit early without prepayment fees or without interest.

BTW I have heard  that the loan provider AFFIX charges a very high interest rate per month.

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Hope this blog helps :)

Love,

Paper Doll 
xoxo

Can You Wait To Have A Baby?

The statistics get worst when reading articles about attempting to get pregnant between the ages of 35 and 39 where you have about 33 percent chance of not getting pregnant within a year of trying. Statistics suck and can leave some women discouraged, depressed, and even end some relationships. The most encouraging moments in life can be when you see someone accomplish something they tried so hard for. What you will rarely read on the internet is about current well-designed studies where women are successfully having babies. A lot of research that we are basing our life choices on is primitive. 

There is an article published in Obstetrics & Gynecology in 2004 and headed by David Dunson that examined the chances for pregnancy in women 35 to 39 years of age. The results were amazing, it found that with sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of 35-to-39-year-old women conceive within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds. Another study released this March in Fertility and Sterility and led by Kenneth Rothman of Boston University, followed 2,820 Danish women as they tried to get pregnant. Among women having sex during their fertile times, 78 percent of 35-to-40-year-olds got pregnant within a year.

Overall there may be many factors in you becoming pregnant, however don’t let age discourage you. One of my favorite quotes is from the book The Alchemist by Paul Coelho it states “ And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” I believe that with all of me, and as I approach another birthday I won’t worry or fret rather I am getting to old to have children. Don’t worry about your age as much as society does, if it is possible for you to have a child it will happen. So how long can you wait to have a baby? As long as it takes.

Revive Your Day Before Noon 

Do you find yourself rushing to get things done and not having the energy nor time to finish certain tasks regular or otherwise?  Here is a list of things you can do before 10:00 am to calm a potentially overwhelming day?

1.Meditate- In order to take advantage of the benefits of meditation you do not have to go into a transit state of iambic humming.  But you can begin your day with a sense of calm by taking 10 to 15 minutes to sit quietly.  This will set the tone for your day increasing for you chances to increase your focus, zero in on a positive energy source and build optimism.  Next you can:

2. Set your daily intention- Focus intently on three goals you want to accomplish.  Make these goals a priority by list of importance.  As you accomplish these tasks you will feel more productive at each completion.  Remember to simplify these goals.  Don't hamper the good tone you have set for the day by overwhelming yourself with unrealistic goals.  Keep it simple.  For instance.  You may say, "no matter what today brings I will have an optimistic attitude," be cheerful throughout the day, and complete tasks one at a time.

3. Use a Schedule- After setting your daily intentions take time to make for yourself a schedule.  This way you have allotted ample time for yourself to complete tasks..  Sometimes emergencies arise.  A well organized schedule will allow you to make decisions in an organized way and handle whatever is needed at short notice.

4. Stretch-  It is not an easy task to incorporate exercise into every morning.  But with good planning and schedule ten minutes of stretching can do much to loosen your body of tension and increase circulation, flexibility and reduce stress.

5. Have a light Breakfast- A hardy breakfast will only make you feel sluggish, imagine starting your day with
a heavy stomach.  Not a good idea.  A bran muffin or cereal with fruit could start your day light while providing nutrients needed and carbohydrates that can carry you as an energy source until lunch.  These are just five thing to help with a positive confident mindset that will help you through any day or tough task.

Be Well.

XOXO

Nikki

 Women all over the globe use the tactic of withholding sex in anger, retaliation, and persuasion of some sort.  One time or another ladies you may have done the same thing.  Let's analyze why this is not such a good idea.  What's most obvious is that some men have the mentality of what they cannot get from home or from you as their woman, they can get elsewhere.  So with that in mind, a woman holding back her "good's" in retaliation may run the risk of her man cheating on her with a woman a bit more in a giving mood.  What makes a man less inclined to cheat?  Could you be stressing him out?