Hi Dolls,
As women we make-up our
faces, curl & straighten our hair, shave our legs, wear five inch heels,
work out, wear those jeans that fit our curves all so well, fragrant our lovely
bodies, speak with a soft sexy voice, and after all that we are still left guessing
what a man finds attractive. So what does a man find most attractive about a
woman? Well ladies this subject is very broad and therefore the answer to
such a question varies with each man. However, I've been able to
generalize this particular subject for discussion and for the overall benefit
of all of you.
As
you all know there's men who like big butts and hips, breast men, men who are
attracted to slim curvy or petite women, those who are attracted to voluptuous
women and these men who love their woman super sized. From my discussion
there are so many things that all men notice in a woman that grab their
attention. A sexy stride, body structure, eyes, a pretty smile, butt,
hips, feet, lips, hair, there are so many things that actually grab a man’s
attention. Still while these things may be what may grab a man’s
attention initially. They are not what will keep it. What keeps a man’s
attention lies much deeper than just physical attributes.
More
often than not it takes a man to interact with a female in order to determine
if he is more than physically attractive to the woman. Some women do not
realize that some conversations can lead men to find a woman less attractive. I
can recall interacting with a male and his female counterpart and she made the
statement that she "has always wanted to buy a Pinto because she was
conceived in one."
Physically men are attracted to different things that may initially grab
their attention. But the person you are on the inside is what is most
attractive and what really matters to the right man anyway. Sometimes women are
the worst critics of oneself, however the things that a woman find most
appealing about herself are the things that once a man gets passed the surface,
won't matter as much as who she is personally. This woman went on to say some absurd things, even
after it was suggested to her that her topic of conversation did not leave the
best impression she continued to say some absurd things. Now many men will
entertain this particular woman, however as far as longevity she may have a lot
of short dates. To a real man of substance and I must make that statement in
order to differentiate from a man that is not, he is looking for a woman that
he finds stimulating in more than a physical manner. Because a man without
a purpose may in fact go for a woman merely by physical attraction but with no
specific purpose beyond what is physical has intentions to seek in a woman what
he finds considerably more stimulating beyond the initial physical attraction.
Something to which he is drawn. This could include but are not
limited to needs and wants of a man shown through qualities or characteristics
from which the woman displays whether learned or natural. This is a woman's
essence, her substance. It is who she is what she stands for and what she
will not. It is evident in the way she presents herself. It speaks
in her demeanor and confirmed in her speech. It comes from her heart.
A man of substance looks for it and is drawn to it. It's who you
are and what makes you a real woman.Nikki
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